Midnight Mama

Getting stuck between two versions of yourself and what to do about it

Change is hard, and understanding the process and foundation of change can make a positive impact on your situation.  Typically, when we are making changes or evolving we can start to feel overwhelmed and frustrated when things seem stagnant or not going in the direction we want them to.  Tune into my perspective on this, and learn a few tips about the process of behavior change and what you can do when you find yourself between versions of yourself, similar to an elevator stuck between floors.
 
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This might not be your winning season as a mother. But what is?

We get wrapped up in the idea of the "winning season" and can find ourselves frustrated when things aren't going our way, or we aren't winning at this season of motherhood.  Have you ever considered that you aren't meant to show up and compete in each season?  Have you reflected upon what season you thrive in and how you can lean into those?  Tune in to hear my position on the seasons of motherhood and how normalizing sitting out for a season might be better than always trying to show up and exhausting yourself in the process.
 

The biggest thief of the holiday season and what you can do about it

Whenever I hear people say, "Tis the season" I am reminded of all of the things they could be referring to, but none more so than the biggest thief of joy there is...Holiday Stress.  That's right, it has its own seasonal box because it is different than regular stress.  The holiday stress is like the one family member who we KNOW is coming to dinner, but somehow we don't fully prepare for it and are left picking up the pieces of the tornado once they are gone.  It shows up differently, manifests differently, and typically robs moms of experiencing the true joy of the holiday season.  Tune in to find out what this looks like for you, how you can implement some boundaries with the simple tool of effective communication, and what you should be striving for during this season.
 
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How you can physically spot the status of your mental health and why moms recover much slower

You may have heard me talk before about how your physical health is directly related to your mental health status, and why it is important to understand this.  In this episode I share my recent struggle with this, how I knew it wasn't the "stomach bug" and what I plan to do moving forward.  If you are a mom who seems to be sick more often than your friends, or other people in your home, you will find some helpful tips here in understanding why this is happening to you, and what you can do about it.  Remember, the physical symptom is not always the real problem.
At the end of the episode I share the fun challenge I am encouraging all of my email subscribers to join in on, and that will be released later this week for the month of November.  Trust me, you will want to get in on this healthy competition where we compete to encourage one another.
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Where ”mom guilt” originated and how you can learn to intercept it

We have all been there, or are there, at some point in our lives.  EVERY mother has experienced some form of "mom guilt" without fully understanding why it happens, what we are really feeling, and how to reduce its frequency in your life.  The less experiences you have to this "guilt" the more likely you will be to engage in healthy practices that promote self-growth, awareness, and insight, that will indirectly benefit your entire family.  Tune in to learn my theory on mom guilt, how I intercept it, and how you can do the same.
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Learning to ask for help AND being ok with how it shows up

Learning to ask for help has somehow become a sign of weakness when it comes to motherhood.  We used to rely on our community, our supports, our villages, to help us ease into this new role and find our footing.  With the development of social media and more and more moms "flexing" about "doing it all" themselves, it has created the illusion that if we ask for help, we are incapable of being a good mom...when quite the opposite is true.  The hardest part about asking for help is actually ASKING for help.  The second part of that challenge is being open to receiving the help in the form that it comes.  Tune into this discussion about normalizing how difficult that can be for most moms, and how to position yourself to receive all of the help you need.
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Making a wrong turn in motherhood

Losing yourself and getting lost in motherhood are two different concepts, and for the most part, we tend to focus on the former.  In this episode, I share with you how that is a difficult concept for me to get behind, and I prefer to put my energy and focus into getting lost in motherhood.  It might sound silly, or like a wild concept, but taking the wrong turn has led to the most remarkable outcomes for me, and could for you if you learn to recognize the difference.  Tune in as I explore the power of motherhood and how sometimes the right path can only be found by making a wrong turn.
 
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There is no timetable on Postpartum

I cannot tell you how many times in the last two weeks I have heard someone say something along the lines of, "you're not even postpartum."  It had me thinking about all of the mothers who may be struggling to cope with anxiety, depression, panic attacks, etc. but are afraid to speak up about them because someone will judge them for being "out of the postpartum period."  What does that even mean?  We have to stop putting a finite end to "postpartum" and start recognizing that unresolved stressors, trauma, and emotions that occurred during the "postpartum period" can, and typically do re-surface later.
 
Tune into hear my philosophy on this, and how you can effectively identify these and work through them without the shame and judgement.  I invite each mother that listens to this to follow up with a FREE call with me to talk about her experience with this and how this episode resonated with her.
 
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Emotional Loneliness

I wanted to share with you the meaning behind Midnight Mama, and why I felt so called to provide moms with this space and place.  I talk openly about what midnights used to look like for me and how emotional loneliness crept its way into my life at one of the darkest hours.  I wanted to give moms and partners some suggestions as it relates to being helpful and informed about this loneliness, how to spot it, and what you can do.  There is so much power in this episode as it relates to the "survival period" (postpartum), and how to be sure that everything around you is leaving a positive impact on your life.
 
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The 2023 Dads

We have recognized that this generation of mothers is operating a bit differently than those before.  They are running businesses and their homes.  Showing up on social media and talking openly about their journeys to normalize it for the women who will come behind them.  They are showing everyone that becoming a mother can be hard, and the most amazing thing in this world at the same time.  What you might not be seeing is the dads who are a part of this movement, stepping in as willing, active, and able partners to support moms as they continue on this movement.  You will not want to miss this episode and all of the suggestions about finding and creating this type of partnership.
 
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